Episode 147 - Unconditional parenting, part nine
By Wes Bertrand
In this episode I cover the first half of Chapter Eight: Love
Without Strings Attached in the book Unconditional Parenting:
Moving From Rewards And Punishments To Love And Reason by Alfie
Kohn
http://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/
Some of Ayn Rand's views on love...
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/love.html
Life is what you make of it; your sense of life essentially colors your experiences yet doesn't alter objective reality; no one's needs ought to be sacrificed in the process of living happily
Nonviolent communication is truly a language of life, essential
for adults and children--for families
http://cnvc.org
http://nvcworld.com
Instead of offer criticism, strive to complain
effectively...
http://healthymindfitbody.com/2011/06/12/73-complaining-effectively-with-psychologist-guy-winch-part-1/
http://healthymindfitbody.com/2011/06/20/74-complaining-effectively-with-psychologist-guy-winch-part-2/
Helpful and comprehensive psychotherapeutic workbook to
compassionately connect you with your own child-self, among
other subconscious facets: The Art Of Self-Discovery
http://www.nathanielbranden.com/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=21_23&products_id=38
Peace Talks Radio interview with Jorge Rubio, an NVC trainer
(40mins)
http://www.goodradioshows.org/peaceTalksL05.htm
You're welcome to join the Complete Liberty fb fan page:
http://facebook.com/completeliberty/
Nonviolent communication thread...
Open NVC Sessions...
http://completeliberty.com/forum/topic/13
bumper music "Do you do you love me" by Nina
http://www.ninagoddess.com/
Episode 146 - Unconditional parenting, part eight
By Wes Bertrand
In this episode I cover Chapter Seven: Principles Of
Unconditional Parenting in the book Unconditional Parenting:
Moving From Rewards And Punishments To Love And Reason by Alfie
Kohn
http://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/
bringing parents and children together...
http://takingchildrenseriously.com
Parental rationalizations for coercing children are quite
similar to governmental rationalizations for coercing
"citizens"
we are fallible beings, so making mistakes is a natural part of
life
http://www.logicallearning.net/libertyourownima.html
"Children construct a theory about their own motives based in
part on our assumptions about their motives, and then they act
accordingly: 'You think I'm just plain bad and need to be
controlled all the time? Fine. Watch me act as though you're
right.'" Kohn p.211
"We can help kids to develop good values by treating them as
though they were already motivated by those values. They
thereby come to believe what's best about themselves and live
up to our trust in them." Kohn p.213
It's clear that parents need to learn the process of nonviolent
communication, so they can foster win/win, life-enriching
interactions with children, in which no one's needs are
sacrificed
http://nvcworld.com
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_parenting
some post-porcfest 2011 details...
NSP - Jul 2, 2011 - Co-host: JT & Guests: Sovereign Curtis
and Calvin
http://www.marcstevens.net/nsp-commercial-free/474-nsp20110702.html
bumper music "Voyager" by Antinomie (couldn't find link)
Episode 145 - Steve Jobs, Apple, producers vs governments
By Wes Bertrand
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apple_Inc.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Jobs
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Wozniak
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pirates_of_Silicon_Valley
Secrets From Apple's Genius Bar: Full Loyalty, No
Negativity
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702304563104576364071955678908.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apple_Store
http://blogs.computerworld.com/18157/samsung_blatantly_copies_iphone_ipad_apple_sues?ua
Video: Jobs Pitches New ‘Mothership’ to Approving Cupertino
City Council | Epicenter | Wired.com
http://www.wired.com/epicenter/2011/06/cupertino-jobs-ufo-building/
http://dvice.com/archives/2011/06/a-first-look-at.php
The question that must be asked of those in "city governments"
(or in any "government") is: what would you do in a free
market, in the absence of your coercive organization?
And how can liberty activists help them answer that important
question?
The pervasive distrust in humans to make beneficial and helpful
choices for themselves and others is directly reflected in
conditional parenting tactics and the various rewards and
punishments of operant conditioning in families, in schools,
and in all governmental systems
Take Action! - Fight Aging!
http://www.fightaging.org/take-action/
https://www.opencures.org/
For The New Intellectual by Ayn Rand
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/For_the_New_Intellectual
http://tfasinternational.org/ila/AynRand-ForTheNewIntellectual.pdf
bumper music "Revolution" by The Beatles
http://www.beatles.com/
http://www.myspace.com/thebeatles