Episode 132 - Cultural roots of authoritarianism in need of nonviolent communication
By Wes Bertrand
Guests Brett from http://schoolsucksproject.com
and Daniel from http://warisimmoral.com
http://www.scholarsacademynh.org/
We aren't on planet earth to live up to other people's
expectations
The error-correction process is part of being human: http://www.logicallearning.net/libertyourownima.html
The art of not being governed: an anarchist history of upland
Southeast Asia By James C. Scott
http://tinyurl.com/4pmc7ag
(google books)
Mark Interviews Edward Stringham (begins at 02:02:30)
http://www.freetalklive.com/content/podcast_2011_01_03
Government Can Be Prevented by Edward Stringham
http://blog.mises.org/15178/government-can-be-prevented/
For most of human history, states, i.e., governments, were
nonexistent
Life Sentence for Being Honest by Larken Rose
http://www.freedomsphoenix.com/Opinion/081086-2010-12-30-life-sentence-for-being-honest.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Michael_Simkanin
Statistics about Business Size (including Small Business) from
the U.S. Census Bureau
http://www.census.gov/epcd/www/smallbus.html
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/List_number_of_us_employees_private_sector_vs_public_sector
http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-small-business/2009/7/17/how-many-small-business-employees-are-out-there.html
Constitutional slavespeak...
http://www.downsizedcfoundation.org/blog/our-lexicon-coercion
Cultural Authoritarianism Breeds Political Authoritarianism by
Kevin Carson
http://c4ss.org/content/4100
The Story of Our Unenslavement - Animated by Stefan
Molyneux
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6IZP3yRJ9I
Two Steps to Anarchy by John Kindley
http://www.peoplevstate.com/?p=653
You were told to believe in and take bites out of "invisible
apples," as Stefan Molyneux has noted:
http://www.freedomainradio.com/Traffic_Jams/how_to_control_a_human_soul.mp3
bumper music "History Has Taught Us Nothing" by Ikarus
http://www.myspace.com/ikarusethnoelectronica
Episode 131 - Reflections on Freedom Summit 2010
By Wes Bertrand
http://www.freedomsphoenix.com/Article/071550-2010-07-08-freedom-summit-2010-full-schedule-and-speaker-topics.htm
Recommended podcast
http://thinkingliberty.net/
Taxation with representation is still unjust
Ultimate safety would mean principled protection of property
rights, something coercive monopolies called governments can't
do
What Has Government Done to Our Money? by Murray N.
Rothbard
http://mises.org/money.asp
Freedom Watch Part 2 - Audit Then End The Fed 12/21/2010 (Prof.
Horwitz nails it with free market banking!)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=df76WgV4-lg&NR=1
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.6 by Marshall
Rosenberg
"Institutions can't make you do anything...no human being has
ever done anything they didn't choose to do."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppyawhuroDw&NR=1
Demands for acquiescence, obedience, compliance, conformity are
the mainstays of parenting, and thus statism
The more we don't assert assert our needs for choice, respect,
independence, autonomy, and justice, the more we become slaves
to statism
Worst Police Misconduct Videos of 2010; Readers Poll
http://www.injusticeeverywhere.com/?page_id=3496
The State fails its own test of legitimacy; it has no valid
cause of action against us, in addition to violating our legal
rights and causing harm. Case in point...
Taking on the California DMV
http://www.youtube.com/hotforliberty#p/u/32/41ZY5LSDEZA
A Letter to Grover Cleveland on His False Inaugural Address,
the Usurpation and Crimes of Lawmakers and Judges, and the
Consequent Poverty, Ignorance, and Servitude of the
People
http://www.lysanderspooner.org/LetterToGroverCleveland.htm
Government's main (unacknowledged) function is to prevent
people from acting in their own rational self-interest
Private project funding alternatives...
http://kickstarter.com
http://indiegogo.com
Praise, rewards, and compliments are the flip side of
punishments; gratitude instead focuses on feelings and
need-fulfillment in relation to specific actions
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 4.4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XU2jMqFb0Xs&NR=1
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 4.5
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rdLM2lVlMNE&NR=1
bumper music "Renegades Of Funk" by Rage Against The
Machine
http://www.ratm.com/
Episode 130 - Unmet needs of children, NVC, rewards and punishment, conformity
By Wes Bertrand
Guests Brett from http://schoolsucksproject.com
and Daniel from http://warisimmoral.com
Needs Inventory | The Center for Nonviolent Communication
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory
So many vital needs of kids are not being met by parents and
school systems, such as clarity, respect, choice, autonomy, and
independence
People doing things that they don't really want to do tends to
disconnect them from their feelings and needs, causing a host
of problems
Principles — Ayn Rand Lexicon
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/principles.html
Raising Children Compassionately by Marshall Rosenberg
http://www.naturalchild.org/marshall_rosenberg/rcc.html
Getting people to do things via punishments or rewards doesn't
appeal to internal motivation, thus harming the quality of
connection and producing conflict
Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive
Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribes by Alfie Kohn
http://www.alfiekohn.org/books/pbr.htm
Why Real-Time Relationships is clearly superior to its
contemporaries.... [Actually, RTR lacks some key aspects of
NVC]
http://freedomainradio.com/BOARD/forums/p/24371/188994.aspx#188994
Surrendering our autonomy need to "authorities" is commonly
demanded in our domination culture of coercive
institutions
Hornberger's Blog - WikiLeaks: Conformists vs.
Individualists
http://www.fff.org/blog/jghblog2010-12-02.asp
The WikiLeaks effect (cartoon)
http://reason.com/archives/2010/12/03/friday-funnies
Powerful and Bad in 2009: Scientific American Podcast
http://www.scientificamerican.com/podcast/episode.cfm?id=powerful-and-bad-in-2009-09-12-31
Authoritarian/conformist indoctrination runs quite deep in our
culture, to the point that people's good intentions serve
need's denying means
Self-responsibility and its Effects on Obedience and
Aggression
http://www.logicallearning.net/obedience.html
bumper music "Children" by Robert Miles
http://www.robert-miles.com/
Episode 129 - Nonviolent communication aspects, raising children compassionately
By Wes Bertrand
Guests Brett from http://schoolsucksproject.com
and Daniel from http://warisimmoral.com
Taking what other people do and say personally (rather than
just as tragic expressions of unmet needs) contributes to the
violent communication process
Attributing the cause of our feelings to things outside
ourselves prevents us from taking responsibility for our
feelings
http://logicallearning.net/ResponsibilityForFeelings.mp3
With nonviolent communication, you separate your observation of
what the other person (or yourself) did or said from your
evaluation of it; unsolicited evaluations foster
antagonism
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/NVC-Concepts
classic scene from Bee Movie posted on http://marcstevens.net
Still wasting time voting? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esO2WJZxpYY
Throughout history people have used morality as a weapon to get
others to do things, which stems from how parents deal with
their children--in which battles of the wills are common
Focusing on feelings and needs rather than moral judgments
fosters understanding and compassion; in both parenting and
education, this process is commonly lacking, and vital needs,
such as respect, are neglected
Raising Children Compassionately by Marshall Rosenberg
http://www.naturalchild.org/marshall_rosenberg/rcc.html
The labeling of others, in addition to being disabling, also
leads us to being disconnected from needs for authenticity and
respect
It's not the job of parents to "make them behave"; violence
begets violence
The need for autonomy needs to be fulfilled
bumper music "We're All To Blame" by Sum 41
http://www.sum41.com/
Episode 128 - Nonviolent communication, empathy and kids
By Wes Bertrand
Brett joins me from http://schoolsucksproject.com
Nonviolent communication achieves clarity and understanding
without the typical seen and unseen costs of arguments
Even if a person expresses disinterest in communication, then
you can still guess his or her feelings and needs behind that
sentiment, thus keeping the empathetic connection
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/feelings-inventory
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory
http://www.celebrateempathy.com/NVC_Intro.pdf
Diagnosing, moralizing, and judging others is the death knell
for the empathic process--and thus for getting our needs met
Attributing the cause of our feelings to things outside
ourselves prevents us from taking responsibility for our
feelings
clip from the NVC audiobook by Marshall Rosenberg...
http://logicallearning.net/ResponsibilityForFeelings.mp3
Punishing through inducing fear is terribly widespread in human
culture, e.g., "law-enforcement"--which utterly fails to meet
our needs for respect and choice
as are all aspects of "pop behaviorism" - http://www.alfiekohn.org/
Child Rearing Practices of Distant Ancestors Foster Morality,
Compassion in Kids
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/09/100921163709.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_parenting
The Comprachicos by Ayn Rand
http://xanthippaschamberpot.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/ayn-rand-the-comprachicos.pdf
Being grounded in ourselves, in our own feelings and needs, is
the true self-centeredness that enables us to understand and
connect with others
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/self-interest.html
Crisis And Leviathan: Critical Episodes in the Growth of
American Government by Robert Higgs
http://www.independent.org/store/book_detail.asp?bookID=15
Sign up now for the Liberty Getaway Cruise in Nov 2011
http://www.btwcruises.com/rw/view/475
http://freedomcamp.wikispaces.com/
Parenting with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) - CNVC Certified
NVC Trainer Inbal Kashtan discusses and demonstrates how to
work with the incessant "no" from a child
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQO7h9MNCqI
bumper music "Empathy" by Tears Of Technology
http://tearsoftechnology.com/
Episode 127 - Domination systems, anger, and non-violent communication
By Wes Bertrand
Guests Brett from http://schoolsucksproject.com
and Daniel from http://warisimmoral.com
Burt Rutan's private space flight venture
http://www.scaled.com/
http://www.space.com/missionlaunches/xprize_success_040929.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXNkUNP75-Q
http://www.space.com/missionlaunches/xprize_full_coverage.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNocVYQzFts
Anger and Domination Systems by Marshall B. Rosenberg,
Ph.D.
http://www.nwcompass.org/anger_and_domination.html
Win/win scenarios, based on nonviolent communication, enable us
to meet in the field beyond right-doing and wrong-doing
Domination systems, such as modern education and the
military--and governments in general--require:
1. Suppression of self
2. Moralistic judgments
3. Amtssprache (this expression was used by Nazi officials to
describe a bureaucratic language that denies choice, with words
like should, have to, ought)
4. The crucial concept of deserve
To ascribe an evil nature to children is the root of all
evil
The entire "corrections system" designed by those in government
is based on punishment and false penitence
Thus, the institutions of government and religion are
inherently anti-self-esteem
Moralizing, judging, criticizing, accusing, and even diagnosing
are all tragic expressions of unidentified feelings and unmet
needs--which tend to ensure NOT getting one's own needs
met
As biological and further as rational beings, we all have the
same universal needs
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory
Humans' technological progress and increases in productivity
are in spite of the debilitating meme of statism; without
statism, we'd be FAR more advanced
Teaching that people are deserving of punishment assists in
making violence against them enjoyable
A Film To End All Wars! part 1 of 15
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFz069t7eOo
Punishment, particularly collective punishment, is part and
parcel of war--total dehumanization of individuals
http://collateralmurder.com
Shame and guilt-tripping are not effective ways to promote
authentic, intrinsically motivated, change in others
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.1 (highly recommended
3-4 hr workshop)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-129JLTjkQ
Our emotions are part of an emotional motivation system
alerting us to our needs
Our thinking in domination systems gives rise to anger against
others and enemy imagery
It's important and healthy to consciously replace the phrase "I
am angry because you/they..." with "I am angry because I am
needing..."
National Opt Out Day (and perhaps protect yourself with leather
undergarments;)
http://aynrkey.blogspot.com/2010/11/national-opt-out-day.html
bumper music "Domination" by Alizarin
http://www.alizarinmusic.com/
Episode 126 - Pitfalls of moralizing, introduction to nonviolent communication
By Wes Bertrand
Nonviolent communication: a language of life By Marshall B.
Rosenberg
http://books.google.com/books?id=nY4tDDO93E8C&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_atb#v=onepage&q&f=false
http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034/
The Objectivist ethics of rational self-interest...
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/self-interest.html
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/values.html
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/virtue.html
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/self-esteem.html
Nonviolent communication upholds needs (or values) as
universal; we all have the same needs
http://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventory
Hosts Mike and Stephanie invited me as a guest on their podcast
to discuss NVC
http://porctherapy.com/2010/11/08/porc-therapy-096-nonviolent-communication/
"Blame, insults, put-downs (critical remarks), labels,
criticism,
comparisons, and diagnoses are all forms of judgment."..."When
we judge, as a result, we increase defensiveness and resistance
from others. If they do agree to act in harmony with our values
because they concur with our analysis of their wrongness, they
will likely do so out of fear, guilt, or shame." Marshall
Rosenberg
The subtle violence of nonviolent language.
http://www.thefreelibrary.com/The+subtle+violence+of+nonviolent+language-a0152267677
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-129JLTjkQ
Marshall Rosenberg NVC Role Play
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bydhuxilg_A&NR=1
Rosenberg on Nonviolent Communication ~ NVC
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZ-fUVM4Dos
Secret of Childhood by Maria Montessori
http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Childhood-Maria-Montessori/dp/0345305833
Nonviolent Communication Part 2 Marshall Rosenberg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbgxFgAN7_w
rolplay1 nonviolent communication
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPpQIkaH0Wo
Kelly Bryson, part 3 - nonviolence, revolution and a third way
though conflict
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IDvlwLXmRU
Kelly Bryson, part 4, Nonviolent Communication
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SICCWuunEvY
Kelly Bryson, part 5, Nonviolent Communication
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GDQ_rsCWO6o
Kelly Bryson, part 6, Nonviolent Communication
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6Ejfw0MI_s
Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn
http://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/
Compassionate Communication By Marshall Rosenberg
http://www.nwcompass.org/compassionate_communication.html
NVC never fails if you stay with the process...from a
connection, creativity arises, and a synergistic solution will
always present itself, without fail!
Feel free to contact me for a counseling session at wes@happinesscounseling.com
bumper music "Bring Me Back To Life" by Evanescence
http://www.evanescence.com/
Episode 125 - Reflections on Libertopia
By Wes Bertrand
http://libertopia.org
www.startrekofgodsandmen.com/
http://www.silvercirclemovie.com/
Why People Believe Weird Things: Pseudoscience, Superstition,
and Other Confusions of Our Time by Michael Shermer
(Review)
http://www.skepdic.com/refuge/weird.html
Hyper-libertarian Facebook billionaire Peter Thiel's appalling
plan to pay students to quit college by Jacob Weisberg
http://www.slate.com/id/2271265/
lots of confusion about this process...
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/sacrifice.html
hopeful activist movements - http://freekeene.com and http://freegrafton.com
It's important to question those who presume to care about you
as they advocate statist coercion against you
Ostracism, Self-Trust and Happy Happy Joy Joy (rebuttal to
shunning those who advocate statism)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pV4z__2FcjM
TL guest Sharon Presley talks about Milgram experiments,
demands of authority...her books on resisting authority
http://thinkingliberty.net/2010-08-10/
paper about Stanley Milgram's obedience experiments...
http://logicallearning.net/obedience.html
The Will to Resist: Soldiers Who Refuse to Fight in Iraq and
Afghanistan
http://dahrjamailiraq.com/the-will-to-resist
Hunter-gatherer John Durant fights vegan Paul Kline for total
green room supremacy. (03:00)
http://www.colbertnation.com/the-colbert-report-videos/265602/february-22-2010/exclusive---backstage-with-john-durant
Nonviolent Communication: A Language Of Life by Marshall
Rosenberg
http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034
The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.1 (3-4 hr workshop by
Rosenberg)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-129JLTjkQ
It's possible to use win/win strategies to get our needs met
from those who've been advocating statism...
Freedom works for everybody (even those who are presently using
force against others)
http://theamericandreamfilm.com/
2081 - http://www.finallyequal.com/
for health, fitness, and longevity, check out...
http://healthymindfitbody.com/podcast
http://itunes.apple.com/podcast/healthy-mind-fit-body-fitness/id332309038
2011 Liberty Getaway 5-day cruise to Bermuda - 5 night cruise
on Royal Caribbean departing 11/05/2011 from Bayonne, NJ to
Bermuda. Featuring special guest speakers: Stefan Molyneux, Wes
Bertrand and Mark Edge.
http://www.btwcruises.com/rw/view/475
It's a participatory "unconference"! my tentative
topic...
http://freedomcamp.wikispaces.com/Wes%27+topic
bumper music "Hope" by Temple 8 http://music.temple8.net/track/hope
Episode 124 - Challenging the voting meme once more
By Wes Bertrand
[explicit] lyrics
Remember, Remember, Don’t Vote in November by Thomas L.
Knapp
http://c4ss.org/content/4075
Under "Democracy" children get roped into a communistic system
(statism), along with the rest of us
Libertarian Party: Worthless by Larken Rose
http://www.freedomsphoenix.com/Opinion/075264-2010-09-13-libertarian-party-worthless.htm
What happens when an "anarchist" runs for office? http://carroll4nh.com/
Political "parties" are designed to be "in power" and control
people via statism
What evidence is there that people want governmental
"services," give their involuntary nature? None
Rasmussen Poll: 23% Say U.S. Government Has the Consent of the
Governed
http://www.rasmussenreports.com/public_content/politics/general_politics/july_2010/23_say_u_s_government_has_the_consent_of_the_governed
The Governator makes a final appearance on CLP...
http://reason.com/blog/2010/10/05/reasontv-arnolds-last-stand
The new bill changes marijuana possession of less than an ounce
to an infraction
http://www.salem-news.com/articles/october012010/schwarzenegger-marijuana.php
Arnold Schwarzenegger Admits Smoking Weed With Tommy
Chong
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMnlUyATqXE
Arnold Schwazeneger smoking weed http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91gl2d0yV5I
What happens when your belief conflicts with a newfound truth?
How do you react? How you respond makes all the difference for
your life
Speaking the truth to "power" doesn't even entail getting
incarcerated; just living consciously and practicing
self-assertiveness is necessary
Being disassociated from emotions is part of the process by
which one compartmentalizes beliefs and behaviors
Introspection is key
In case you need some more reasons...
Don't Vote: 20 Practical Reasons by John Roscoe and Ned
Roscoe
http://www.wendymcelroy.com/news.php?extend.3569
Feel free to email me at wes@happinesscounseling.com
if you're interested in counseling sessions
bummer music "AEnima" by Tool
http://www.toolband.com/
Episode 123 - Challenging the voting meme again
By Wes Bertrand
What are the prospects of complete liberty--in your
lifetime?
Played clip of my hour-long call to Free Talk Live about
non-voting
http://traffic.libsyn.com/ftl/FTL2010-09-28.mp3
This Free-Stater denounces Free Keene
http://nhpr.org/free-state-vs-free-keene
Is the political free stater message different than the Tea
Party-ers'?
What will it take for individuals to stop complying, given the
potent statist matrix of mass indoctrination coupled with mass
fear?
Essentially, we need to come to terms with two classes in
society: the productive class and the parasitical class
(http://www.agorism.info/AgoristClassTheory.pdf)
http://freekeene.com/2010/08/11/city-council-drinking-game-video/
Drinking Game Involves Keene City Council
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129077277
City council members are basically trying to find some
semblance of identity through the political process, in spite
of its rights-infringing nature
Reason Saves Cleveland With Drew Carey: How to Save the Mistake
on the Lake and other Once Great U.S. Cities--The Complete
Series
http://reason.org/news/show/reason-saves-cleveland-complete-ser
New at Reason: Drew Carey and Nick Gillespie Clash with the
Cleveland City Council
http://reason.com/blog/2010/09/08/new-at-reason-drew-carey-and-n
Running for office doesn't foster the adoption of the principle
of freedom for individuals
Challenging so-called "authorities" need not entail getting
arrested and imprisoned
The fear of challenging "authority" stems from bad
parenting
The process of individuation is key...
Honoring the Self: Self-Esteem and Personal
Transformation
http://www.nathanielbranden.com/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=21_23&products_id=43
The voting process allows for a psychological comfort zone to
exist within the turmoil of the reality of people's statist
enslavement; it can be perversely comforting to be a member of
the tribe
Clearly, it's important to come to terms with one's own
emotional psychology
Principles enable you to stay true to yourself and true to
reality
A VERY IMPORTANT book I recently investigated, which I'll be
exploring extensively in the future...
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall
Rosenberg
http://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034/
No one can "represent" you in the political system
DEMOCRACY OF THE PEOPLE, BY THE POLITICIANS, FOR WHOM AGAIN?
http://completeliberty.com/chapter2.php
bumper music "Freedom" by Rage Against The Machine
http://www.ratm.com/
